You will have to convert and betray your ideals to keep the relationship alive. Initially I thought he would join the church and life would get back on the only track I knew. For the first time in my life, at age twenty-seven, I am in a relationship that is good and loving and serious enough that I believe it may lead to marriage. In my home ward, the non-member son of one of the members of the Bishopbric was able to stand up with the Priesthood and hold his baby girl while they gave her baby blessing. If I catch you in the back seat trying to pick her locks, I'm going to send you back to mother in a card board box.



He never has time for me. As a married female resident, I wanted to offer you the other side of this Your husbands love you, and miss you. I understand the sacrifice that it takes to become a doctor, but I am not sure if he does. I let her know I'd been reading on LDS. Lots of really thorough replies. That's another 15 for me. Two people can be as completely different as it is possible to be and respect each others' beliefs. If you are very much willing to accept and understand all of these, whether you are a Mormon or not, you can expect that it is fun to date a Mormon girl. Wow i am dating a dr and love him so much but i wonder if love is enough.
Go on dates on days other than Sunday. Whatever your leaders have said, consider their counsel, give it the weight it deserves, then counsel with your Heavenly Father about your own situation. Mormonism is an all-in religion. It's why TBMs are so bugged by people that leave the church. That being said, we have built something beautiful and good, have modeled loving responsibility and accountability to our kids, and I am certain I am with the man God chose for me. It works, though, because I know that his beliefs have great worth. Willl he build resentment at the struggle to get him to change whether real or imagined.
The important part of finding a partner to marry does not, in my opinion, revolve around whether or not you are of the same religion. If she is full on Mormon, this relationship will go one of two ways: You will convert and change your entire lifestyle and personality to conform with her expectations never to deconvert or you will face severe penalitesor you will break up because you won't convert and change everything about yourself. But I am really in love with him, and see him as a wonderful man. What do they all do from 8am-2. Sounds like classic "flirt to convert. Had to switch to more flexible job. I run a local nonprofit and had a demanding job, but it can never be as difficult or challenging as his job. I realize that the answers to many of these questions may be different for every family, and that we need to continue to discuss them more as a couple as we continue to think about our future.